How does a 30+ y/o man (boy) manage to live a life of such recluse and carelessness. This is a southern born and bred individual that was supposedly raised with manners and respect.? What a friggin joke. I am so beyond pissed off at him right now,. words escape me. His idea of moving out was to just grab a couple handfuls of items and leave the rest of the squalor as it was. Mind you this was used as his office space, he spent the majority of all his time in here doing God knows what, but cleaning definitely wasn't it. He worked here, and basically just played computer games his entire existence while living under our roof. This was not a sudden "get out" situation, he knew well over week ahead of time that he would be leaving and he couldn't be bothered to even attempt to clean the room, instead "Expecting" that his wife or we would just deal with it. This has been the pattern for the past few years and it finally became to much to deal with on the whole.
On the daily we have requested that dishes and silverware, etc. be brought down so it could be washed and re-used as every mealtime we are scrounging for suitable items for meals.. I now know where it all ended up. At least half of our storage containers are sitting there in a stack and just getting grosser by the day, along with the silverware, etc.
We have sat here on the daily watching our daughter do her her best to be a devoted and loving individual toward this man, waiting on him hand and foot, doing her best to work and provide income for their living expenses and all he does is take, take, and take more and has barely ever done a thing, especially when it come to the household and living arrangements. We have tried our best, collectively to get him to communicate with us regarding finances, work plans, living plans, and so much more and we get nothing or he tries to flip it to someone elses responsibility. Its all about him, a true narcissist.
Enough is enough, time to go... I feel for our daughter, but one cannot accept the behavior and the constant barrage of disrespect that comes from him. Time for some accountability, I know we will never receive the financial aspects of our arrangements that had been made so many times, I can live with that, but we refuse to tolerate it any longer.
Ok, I could drag this on, but suffice to say, good riddance in my opinion.. Now maybe our daughter and we can move on with our lives and hopefully she will again find some peace and happiness and mature to the person she can be without the weight of carrying his sorry ass any longer.
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