How you get & how I give closure.

 

In todays world, people are so quick to judge, demand, and expect many things from individuals.

I've had friends that I have cut off deliberately at times, no further contact, communications, etc. Most of the time the reasons are for those listed.

You get to a certain point emotionally, in all relationships. Eventually you have to ask yourself if it is really worth persuing if it becomes one sided..? I say no, it is not..once something becomes one-sided and there is no reciprication of any kind, to me.. that relationship is dead and not gunno go anywhere in the future. Drop the baggage and expectations and hopes for change, because it most likely will never be any different than it is/was today.

A great deal can be said for respect, accountability, and honesty.. once those are lost, there is little to no hope for change. So if you are looking for closure... take an honest look at how you treat or mistreat individuals during your relationships, otherwise, consider closure complete on my end of things. I do not, nor will I accept disrespect, lack of accountability and trust.. you violate those, and you no longer exist in my world..We will part ways regardless!  So take a good look at yourselves, and ask, what would you do if it where reversed???

If I walk away from you as an individual, friend, partner, etc.. just know, these are most likely the reasons for such actions..